Self-concept is how a person perceives themselves, built from identity, body image, role performance, and self-esteem, and any of the four can be disrupted by illness or treatment. Sexuality is treated as a normal dimension of health that nurses are expected to raise, not avoid. Test items focus on recognizing body image disturbance and responding without judgment.
Four componentsSelf-concept is made up of personal identity, body image, role performance, and self-esteem. Identity is who I am, body image is how I perceive my physical self, role performance is how well I meet expectations attached to my roles, and self-esteem is my judgment of my own worth.
Stressors and warning signsBody image is most threatened by amputation, mastectomy, ostomy creation, burns, scarring, paralysis, and hair loss, while role performance suffers with job loss, chronic illness, retirement, and divorce. Warning signs are behavioral: refusing to look at or touch a stoma or surgical site, declining to participate in self-care, avoiding mirrors, making global negative self-statements, withdrawing from visitors, or fearing rejection by a partner.
Nursing approachAccept the patient's feelings without arguing them out of the perception, encourage verbalization, and let them set the pace for viewing and handling the affected area. Reinforce realistic strengths and progress rather than offering blanket compliments, involve the partner or family when the patient consents, and refer to peer support groups.
Sexuality terminologyBiological sex, gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation are four separate concepts and do not predict one another. Use the name and pronouns the patient states, document the legal name where required, and ask rather than assume the gender of a partner.
Response cycleThe classic sexual response cycle is excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution, with desire added as a preceding phase in later models. Dysfunction is generally classified by the phase affected, which is why the history asks where in the sequence the problem occurs.
PLISSIT frameworkPLISSIT stages the discussion as Permission to raise the topic, Limited Information, Specific Suggestions, and Intensive Therapy. Staff nurses commonly work at the first two levels and refer onward for the last, but giving permission is the step most often skipped.
Taking the historyEnsure privacy, ask matter-of-factly using open-ended questions, normalize the topic by explaining you ask all patients, and avoid reacting with surprise. Do not assume the patient is heterosexual, partnered, monogamous, or sexually inactive because of age or disability.
Treatment effectsMany drug classes impair libido or function, including beta blockers and other antihypertensives, SSRIs, antipsychotics, opioids, and many chemotherapy agents; alcohol also impairs function. Patients often stop these medications silently, so ask before assuming nonadherence is forgetfulness.
Activity after cardiac eventsTeach that sexual activity may generally resume when the patient tolerates moderate exertion, such as climbing two flights of stairs, without chest pain or dyspnea, and to choose a rested, comfortable time rather than after a heavy meal or alcohol. Report chest pain, palpitations, or dyspnea that persists after activity.
Inappropriate behaviorIf a patient makes sexual advances, respond calmly, name the behavior specifically, state clearly that it is unacceptable, and describe what will happen if it continues. Stay professional, do not joke it away, and document and report the incident.
Signs of body image disturbance are behavioral before they are verbal: the patient who will not look at or touch the altered body part is telling you the diagnosis.
Never give nitrates to a patient who has taken a phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitor for erectile dysfunction within the manufacturer-specified window, because the combination can cause profound, life-threatening hypotension.
PLISSIT: Permission, Limited Information, Specific Suggestions, Intensive Therapy.